Love
I’ve always secretly hated 1 Corinthians 13. As a perfectionist, I would read about all of the things that love is, be painfully reminded that my behaviors don’t perfectly adhere to the “love...
View ArticleTrump, the White Man's last gasp, and the Resurrection
Last week while I was going for a walk, an elderly white American gentleman named Ned struck up a conversation with me. He was a friendly, talkative guy and before long, the conversation turned to...
View ArticleA liberation theology for single people
A few years ago, when I was a psychology professor at Westmont College (an evangelical Christian college), I found myself consoling a distressed student. Courtney was a gifted, well-liked student who...
View Article15 Books for Fighting for Justice in the Trump Era
The view from my desk in my home office at my Carolina farm, The Haven for Weary Women of Color When I woke up around 3:30 am on Wednesday morning and saw the election results, my first thought went...
View Article8 tips for talking to your family about Trump
“If you are telling the truth, then you can speak gently, and your words will have power.” — Chogyam Trungpa I recently spoke with a young Seattle woman who was so...
View ArticleHow to be last: Towards a practical theology for privileged people
Last summer, I met with a group of senior executives at a large organization. Though it is overwhelmingly run by white men, the leadership is seeking a strategy to implement racial and gender equity...
View ArticleWellness in the Age of Trump and Terror
I, like many women of color, have experienced an inordinate amount of trauma over the course of my life. Even when I reminisce about my childhood, I can’t remember a time when the world seemed safe or...
View ArticleGod our Mother: An Inclusive Morning Prayer Liturgy
God is Father, but, especially, Mother. -- John Paul I Creation by Sergio Velasquez As an adult I've come to love and savor the practice of Anglican/Episcopal Morning Prayer. The breadth of the...
View ArticleTrue Connection Requires Our Bodies — and Our Minds
We had been friends for a few years before he shared his secret with me. Even though we were eating lunch at a noisy restaurant and it was unlikely that anyone was paying attention to our conversation,...
View ArticleAn Armor of Adoration
Credit: Olya /Voloshka God is good all the time – all the time God is good. This is the refrain I most closely associate with my Grandmommy, a sweet and powerful woman who embodies the black...
View ArticleSo Much of the Privileged Life Is About Transcendence
The day after the 2016 presidential election, I happened to be speaking at a conference in New Orleans, one of the bluest cities in the South. While wandering the working art studios in the Bourbon...
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